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Grace

“The message of grace begins with a single statement: God loves you. This is the foundation of grace. Any teacher who uses the word “grace” apart from love doesn’t understand grace. Any person who seeks grace without knowing God’s love will not find it. It all begins with love.”

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Narcissism

“As I write about living in grace, I find myself thinking that the activities of those who are under grace are the very things the narcissists lack. Rest in the Lord. Trust in His love. Accept that you are accepted. The narcissist suffers and hurts others because he doesn’t do these things. He is truly stuck under the law—a law he has accepted and believes is still for him and the rest of us. The freedom we enjoy is an affront to the narcissist.”

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Walk with Me

“The Christian life is not a burden to be carried or a goal for which we strive, but a walk to enjoy with the Lord who loves us. His goal is that we would know Him and live in peaceful relationship with Him. That relationship is a matter of the heart…” (From the back cover)

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There’s Grace for your Heart!

“The mind has questions. The body has struggles. But it’s the heart that needs a Person.”

Seeking answers for your heart in right doctrine or sacrificial obedience may leave you wishing for something more. Learn here of a relationship that makes a difference. The church has not done well in connecting believers with the Lord who loves them. Our ministry is to proclaim Jesus as God’s grace for your heart!

But what does narcissism have to do with grace? Fair question—not much! Except that those who have suffered in narcissistic relationships need to know there is Someone who loves them. And that narcissism represents the acme of life without grace. And that the legalistic church draws narcissists and cultivates manipulative relationships. Grace is the antidote to narcissistic abuse and the balm that heals the hurting.

Spend some time here. Read as much and as often as you wish. Along the way, open your heart to a message of encouragement.

What is there to read here?

From poetry to blog posts to essays to short books, writings here will focus on two primary topics: grace and narcissism. Although the two can be connected, they are separate here because this ministry over the years has had this double-pronged thrust. A third focus has also developed for pastors, church leaders, and Christian workers. Our prayer is that you will find encouragement here.

Grace

Here you will find articles explaining what we mean by grace and how it applies to your Christian life.  These are words of blessing for you.

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Narcissism

Narcissism is in the family, the church, your friendships, and at work.  We explain what you see in your relationships and how you can respond.

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Encouragement

Find encouragement and guidance here.

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Recent posts from the Grace for my Heart blog

  • Never Embrace Failure
    by graceformyheart on September 17, 2021 at 1:00 pm

    It’s Narcissist Friday! I have never been much of a hugger. As a child, I often felt trapped by the hugs of aunts or older ladies. My parents were not particularly physical in their expression of love. I did love … Continue reading →

  • What does it mean to have a new identity?
    by graceformyheart on September 13, 2021 at 1:00 pm

    It’s Monday Grace! I know someone who has a secret Facebook name. Under that name, he can post controversial things, criticize others, and admit to thoughts and actions he would never admit in real life. He calls it his “alter-ego.” … […]

  • Never Measure Success
    by graceformyheart on September 10, 2021 at 1:00 pm

    It’s Narcissist Friday! (For My Grandchildren) It has been my experience that many of the times I think I have done well few people seem to notice or acknowledge that success. Instead, much of the praise I have received has … Continue reading →

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